The Grace Paradox
When people start reflecting in their adult years about the character of the families they grew up in, one common area of consideration is ‘structure’. Were decision making and expectations highly structured, rule-bound and perhaps even rigid? Or were they highly situational, flexible, and perhaps even unpredictable or chaotic? Were there swift consequences for breaking rules or disappointing expectations? Or was there an abundance of grace or even an overlooking of transgressions? In this sermon Fr. Garrett examines how these family dynamics play out in our relationship with and disposition towards God. Do we see God as a stern parent, ever vigilant against our sins and quick to punish? Do we see God as kindly, understanding and forgiving, always on the lookout for a way to comfort and bring us back into the fold? The scriptures contain stories of all of these characterizations of God, and though we can experience one end of this spectrum as tough (even fearful) and the other end as supportive, it is important to realize that God transcends the boundaries of our families of origin and other human relationships. God’s character and regard for all of humanity is love – sometimes gentle and embracing, sometimes provocative and challenging – according to what we need. Ultimately, what we are asked to give to God in response to this love is trust. No matter where we are on the spectrum of life, God’s desire to care for us, steer us away from harmful and self-destructive actions, and direct us toward realizing our very best selves is constant. May that grace be with you.